I did some reading, which in turn, caused me to do some thinking. It's about a situation that many of us can relate to. The ever-so-controversial situation of having a crush on someone who just sees you as a friend. Oh yes... all too familiar, right? Possible solutions: tell the person, or keep it to yourself.
So if you tell the person, there's a chance he/she may feel the same. Then again, there's a chance they may not and perhaps you are left out there in a bit of embarassment. Also, there's that possibility of total weirdness that could cause your friendship to change, for a while at least. Worse case scenario, you telling the person may cause your friendship to just go downhill with no chance of retrieval. Ouch...
But if you keep it to yourself, then there's always that small chance of hope. Your friendship remains the way it is. But then again, you may never know how the other person feels about you. You'd be left wondering the dreaded "What if?" questions. And those "What if?" questions just suck!
Hm... very interesting. Definitely an all too common scenario that many of us go through. So, what would YOU do? Would you put yourself out there and just tell the person you like them? Or would you just play it safe and keep quiet? Such a dilema...
So if you tell the person, there's a chance he/she may feel the same. Then again, there's a chance they may not and perhaps you are left out there in a bit of embarassment. Also, there's that possibility of total weirdness that could cause your friendship to change, for a while at least. Worse case scenario, you telling the person may cause your friendship to just go downhill with no chance of retrieval. Ouch...
But if you keep it to yourself, then there's always that small chance of hope. Your friendship remains the way it is. But then again, you may never know how the other person feels about you. You'd be left wondering the dreaded "What if?" questions. And those "What if?" questions just suck!
Hm... very interesting. Definitely an all too common scenario that many of us go through. So, what would YOU do? Would you put yourself out there and just tell the person you like them? Or would you just play it safe and keep quiet? Such a dilema...

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